How To Be Happy In Life?
How to be happy? How can I be happy? Before knowing the answer, it is important to know what is the difference between those who live a satisfactory life and a frustrated life? Because if you know this too, then you too will be happy. According to Harvard research, "People who have good relationships are happy and people who do not have good relationships remain unhappy". Relationships are the biggest cause of happiness, which we ignore badly. Because we are trying to be happy by achieving success. Now a very important question is coming out here and that is how to build a relationship?
How To Build a Relationship?
- Understanding is essential for a good relationship. Like if your partner is dishonest, then instead of making an issue of this, we have to understand why he lied? It may also be that he lied for good. We have to see the intention of another person.
- Now this question must come to everyone's mind if we understand and the other person does not understand what we should do? So we should never understand that we will understand another human being and he will not understand us. To understand this, you should keep this thing above yourself. If your life partner is very understanding and if your mood is bad then he understands this, supports you when you need support. Then you will understand whether or not that person is so understanding? So how can you think that your life partner will not understand this?
- Understanding the point of view of another person is understanding and explaining your point of view to them is an argument. We do not have to explain ourselves to others, they will understand themselves if we understand.
- If we want our relationship to be good, then its starting will be from ourselves and not from the other.
- Being a good relationship does not mean that you will never fight with people because opinions will clash with each other. If I can count on that particular person blindly, if I can trust that particular person whom I'm in a relationship with blindly, that means a good relationship.
- Relationships that happen are not its a dead object, it's a living thing and whatever is a living thing, it demands a great deal of attention from your side. Something new is happening daily in a living thing like your body. If anything is living like there is a living plant, it demands attention. You have to give him water daily and take care of him. Do not treat relationships as if they will go on their own. Just like if you have not given water to a plant, the time it should be given, it will dry up as well as the relationship. You will always have to take care of it.
- There are no rules of relationships that you have to blindly follow. You have to do better by learning something new that must be happening every day.
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